Category Archives: Feminisms

Feminisms: Mommy Wars

Speaking of “mommy porn,” I thought I’d vent a bit about the so-called “mommy wars” that the wife of presumptive GOP nominee Mitt Romney has become embroiled in. Ann Romney, a “stay-at-home” mother, came under fire for never having “worked a day in her life.” Obviously the political right took this badly worded statement out of context and spun it all the way to the other side of their war on my uterus. Of course what Ms. Rosen meant was that Mrs. Romney has not had to work for money to take care of the children she raised, not that raising children is easy peezy. In fact, she was wealthy enough to pay help to help her raise them. I’m not saying that her efforts as a stay-at-home mom should be derided. All women, of all lives, deserve respect and value. But “mommys” aren’t more important than other women. Their experiences are different but not “harder.” Well, except poor mothers, who Mitt Romney thinks should have to get a job to earn welfare to pay for their kids.

HOW DO THEY NOT SEE THEIR RIDICULOUSNESS?!?!?! Ann Romney can throw a fit for being called out on her privilege and claim that Democrats hate mothers while she and her husband make it harder for poor mothers to raise their kids. Only rich women can be stay-at-home moms, I guess. Even though beloved anti-feminist Phyllis Schlafley is still going on about how women shouldn’t work. People, if you really want this to happen, YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR IT SOMEHOW.

Babies be costing mad money, yo.

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Feminisms: My Uterus, My Vote, Your Loss

I’m sitting here at the Free Library of Philadelphia, thinking about how much better a library it is than my old haunt, DC’s Martin Luther King Junior Memorial Library. Designed by modernist Ludwig Mies van der Rohe, of the famously omnipresent and knocked off Barcelona chairs, MLK is obviously a different sort of beast than the neoclassical 1920s building. But being 50 years younger, you’d think that the bathrooms and elevators would at least work? But I digress…

My real point of writing this essay is not to talk about midcentury design, but to point out that I’m sitting here, 31-years old, spending my time writing a novel (well attempting to), thinking about how bad DC’s library is and how that must surely be related to lack of voting rights, while ignoring my belly as it says “go outside and eat that peanut butter sandwich already lady!” Why can I do all of this? Well, because we sold our house and my husband is earning enough I can write full timeBut also because I didn’t get pregnant when I was 17 years old. Or 20. Or 25. Or 30. I’m able to pursue my innermost dreams and express my silliest opinions because of birth control. More so, because of clinics like Planned Parenthood, who I could 1) go to without involving my parents and 2) afford before I had health insurance, allowing me to have safe sex and not have a tween living in my household as we speak. Can you imagine what my life would be like? Filled with DisneyChannel tv shows, for sure…

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Feminisms: F*ck All Y’all

I was writing a post about the Komen/Planned Parenthood controversy and alternative donation options (see here and here), when I read up on some of the other attacks on reproductive choice that have taken over this country… Like Virginia’s recent bill that would essentially make abortion unaccessible for low income women and requires rapey ultrasounds or Oklahoma’s ‘every sperm is sacred‘ bill or the religious right’s fight against national birth control coverage because it violates Separation of Church and State. ::eye roll:: Continue reading

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Feminisms: Frat Surveys, Mens Magazines, and Violence Against Women

Yesterday, an extremely upsetting news story about the University of Vermont’s chapter of the Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity made the Internet rounds. Apparently, a survey given to members of the chapter asked, in addition to harmless questions like what are your hobbies, fave music, etc, “If you could rape someone, who would it be?”

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Feminisms: “Awesome Women of Occupy Philly” Week

As a supporter of the Occupy movement, I was really disheartened by the video “Hot Chicks of Occupy Wall Street,” to say the least.  While interviewing some Occupy DC protestors about “Hot Chicks”, I decided I would do a response photo essay entitled “Awesome Women of Occupy Philly.” Each woman I photographed was asked permission from me to do so and provided me, in their own words, why they are a part of the Occupy movement.

In honor of what I’m most thankful for this Thanksgiving week, I’ll be sharing a few photos a day of the amazing women of Occupy Philly who are expressing their voices and their democratic rights, for the benefit of all of us. Each woman was there for a different reason, from educating about the archaic marijuana laws in our country to protesting the corporate greed that resulted in the loss of their loved ones’ jobs. Even if you (or I) don’t agree with all of their viewpoints, they are raising their voices. And that’s something to be grateful for.

Happy “Turkey Day,” Y’all!

To see all the Awesome Women of Occupy, visit the photo essay page.

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